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There are times in a person’s life when they gain knowledge of something they wish they hadn’t. Being the victim of a cheating boyfriend is one of those times.

In this world of uncertainty and the recent precipitous dive in “family values”, a cheater can find refuge in the anonymity of numbers. Shocking numbers!

Did you know that about fifty percent of relationships are victim to the infidelity virus. Seem a little high to you, well, it did to me too. I had to look into this more, so I did some more research and found it was true. But even more shocking, was that so many people just live with the cheating and don’t do anything about it.

You’ve found this article, so you’re already ahead of the curve. This is a huge step as it means that we share the same common trait that empower us women; the power to take action and not let bad things happen to us. We have dignity and self esteem, making us untouchable to the emotional damage a cheating boyfriend may try to bestow upon us.

It’s an emotional roller-coaster. But this roller-coaster isn’t scary in the conventional analogy. This is that roller-coaster at the annual state fair that you are terrified for your physical safety. You are scared for your life that it will fall apart and ultimately end in your demise.

There are many times in our lives where we know we have to take action but we are scared. We want to move forward so badly, but just can’t find the strength to do it. This makes us feel pretty miserable, but yet we still seem to live with this fear and misery, even though we have the power to overcome it.

PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER! This is your life. You make the calls (At least you probably used to). Take control of your life again, pull your confidence together and begin living again.

- “Hmmm…Honey, you know I am not one of those controlling girlfriends, but uuhh…where have you been!?! It 6 o’clock in the morning!” This is one of the more obvious signs of a cheating boyfriend, but one that is overlooked many…many times.

- Your Boyfriend lacks that raging libido that once was on the verge of excessive.

- History has a habit of repeating itself. Check your boyfriends relationship history. Look for both consistencies and inconsistencies. And if he does have a historydon’t count on him changing, Trust me.

- He can’t look you in the eye? This is a major clue. Then when you ask him why he gets really angry. Guilt can be a funny thing. It takes control and makes the signs easy to read.

- Hair evidence. Found any hair lately that doesn’t quite match any hair that should be in your man’s radius? This is another one of those signs of a cheating boyfriend that is taken for granted.

- Check receipts! Find any receipts for flowers or jewelry but never received the benefit of his credit card dept. Look for recent purchase on receipts or even on-line computer statements.

- Do you find him using the computer more often than before? Does he have a sudden interest in MySpace, but yet won’t let you see his profile or his page. Does he smile a lot when on the computer then switch pages suddenly when you walk in the room?

- Ah yes, The ever so popular cell phone! Any new trends in his usage or lack thereof? How about texting, or vibrating ringer. How about not answering calls? Out of all the signs of a cheating boyfriend, this is one of the easiest to pick up on and get proof of infidelity.

- Are his friends working in collusion with these question provoking scenarios? Men suck at covering for one another. Can you spot the inconsistencies?

- Do you feel like your doing all the work in the relationship without any effort from your significant other. If he shows this sign of a cheating boyfriend, even if he’s not cheatingget rid of him! You deserve better.

Remember, we still have to build a solid case before we make any attempt at questioning your suspected cheating boyfriend. This will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women, we often think we have plenty of evidence, yet since we cannot predict how our suspected boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared to answer his every excuse with a fact. Remember, he can’t deny anything, once you have solid proof!

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